Stop Looking at Homes....

And Start Looking For an Agent!

We've all heard the expression "don't put the cart

before the horse."  Unfortunately, that is what many home buyers do.  How's that?  They go on-line to various websites and start shopping for homes.  "Jim," you say, "why is this a bad thing?"  Well, read on....

First off, as a buyer, you really want to learn what it means to actually buy a home first. There are so many things buyers, especially first-time buyers, do not know about home buying.  And many of those things can be answered by a competent buyer's agent.  The home buying process is much more complicated that just "picking a home" off of the internet and going to see it.  That really isn't the way a buyer should proceed.

It's very important as a buyer to have the proper foundation and understanding about how the process works.  I spoke about this in one of my previous postings (see: I Just Want to Look At Homes).  If you are out there just plinking around on the internet you are really not ready to buy a home.  You may think you are, but you are probably not.

Yes, I know it's fun to window shop.  I do it all of the time on E-Bay and Amazon. But as I said, that isn't really how you buy a  house.  Why?  Well, first off, if you do not have a buyer's agent and you actually see something on the internet that you want to see and potentially buy did you know the agent listing the house is working for the seller, primarily?  You can easily fall into a Dual Agency situation, which is the absolute worst situation you can be in as a buyer.  Buyers who end up in a Dual Agency situation are typically not educated buyers and they typically regret it.  Basically, this is where the agent selling the home ends up "representing" you and the seller at the same time....and gets double commission for doing it.  If you want to know more about the perils of Dual Agency just Google it.

Why else is it bad to shop for homes before having a buyer's agent?  Because much of the data that you see out there on the web is inaccurate and/or outdated.  Many of the homes you see on various "home" websites are either "in contract" or have already been sold.  Problem?  These sites are not regularly updated and the data is not in real-time.  How do you like looking at homes on a website and then finding out that half of them are already sold?  This does not happen if you have a buyer's agent that you have established a relationship with.  Why not?  Because a buyer's agent has access to the local MLS (Multiple Listing Service) which is were ALL listing data comes from.  Nothing you will find out there is as current as the MLS for your area.  It is the most accurate, real-time data base that is out there.  And in most locations the MLS can send you updates automatically as soon as they are on the market. Of course, unless you establish a relationship with a buyer's agent you can't get access to these listings.

Again, I know you like to browse.  Not a problem.  Get a buyer's agent to set you up on the MLS search so you can get all current listings and keep browsing if you want to.  Keep in mind that the data from MLS is more current, so you will see homes that show "available" that are not.  That is not a problem with the MLS, it's a problem of data management with the website that shows it as available when it's not.  Basically, all available listings will be sent to you.  If you find a listing on a website that matches your criteria but does not show up in the listings being sent to you by your buyer's agent then 99% of the time it's not available. How much time will it save you to get accurate, real-time listings and not have to keep browsing home websites hoping to find a home that you like AND that's actually available? 

A buyer's agent is also there to answer your questions and guide you in the right direction.  He/she is on your side, and is there to help you make an informed decision, not to "sell you a home."  Do you really want to continue to call/e-mail random seller's agents on these listings, hoping that they respond?  Half the time the agents don't even respond to you.  And when they do they just want to talk about how great their listing is and push you into buying it.  Is that really what you want? YOUR agent will get you the information you want in a timely manner and not try to "push" any particular home on you.  Again, your agent is in your side, and is there to help you make an informed decision based on unbiased information that he/she has provided to you, based on what you want.

Now go find yourself a good, competent, experienced buyer's agent.

I Just Want to Look at Homes

It never fails.  I constantly get e-mails and phone calls from people who "want to look at homes" - or want to look at a specific home - right now.  A potential buyer will see a home on a particular website, or driving down the street and call me or e-mail me and say, "Hi, my name is John.  I saw a home on ABC website.  I want to see it.  When can you show it to me?"  That's typically how the conversation starts.  Every agent's dream, right?  A hot-to-trot buyer, ready to go, already has a home picked out.  Not so fast....

Some buyers need to be educated.  Most that contact me in the above manner do not understand how the process works.  It's not as simple as "I'm a buyer, there's a house, show it to me."  If, in fact, you are a buyer who "just wants to see houses" then you need to find an agent who "just shows houses."  In that case, I am not the right agent for you.  Let me explain.

Don't I show houses to people?  Isn't that what I do?  Why can't I just "show you a house?"  Well, I could.  But I prefer not to.  Why?  Because you probably aren't ready to buy a house.  Are you pre-approved with a lender?  Have you established a relationship with your "own" agent, or are you randomly calling agents?  Do you even know what you can afford?  Do you understand the steps in the process of buying a home?    If you answered "no" to any of these questions, you are not ready to buy a home, and therefore, shouldn't be actually looking at homes in person (vs. browsing on the Internet or driving around).

I realize that it's easy to get excited when you are window shopping.  Many people window shop for things when they are not quite ready to purchase.  And there are lots of websites out there that have homes for sale.  I'm not trying to kill the American Dream here, or trying to burst your bubble.    But buying a home is different from, say, buying a big screen t.v. or buying a car.  You can't learn the ins-and-outs of buying a home on line.  You can't research specific homes because every home is unique, vs. finding a certain t.v., finding the place where it has the best price, and just going a buying it.  Buying a home is different.  You really need to understand the process before you start looking at homes.  It can be complicated and treacherous if you do not know what you are doing.  There are many mistakes that first-time buyers have made that they have regretted later: mistakes that have cost them time, money, and even the home of their dreams.  I know, there are plenty of agents who will "just show you homes" if that is all you want.  Just make a few calls, you will find them pretty easily.  Not to mention the fact that if you're just calling on listings on a website that some of the agents you are calling are working for the seller, and not for you.  But that's another story (see my previous blog postings).

Most agents are salespeople.  You want to "buy" a home.  They will "sell it to you."  Great, deal done.  Or is it?

I don't "sell homes," I educate people on how to buy homes.  I give them the tools they need so that they can make an informed decision when the time comes.  I take them through the process from A to Z in the very beginning, before we even look at a single home.  I give my clients an edge that other buyers don't have because I lay the foundation upon which everything else will be built.  My clients are savvy, educated and informed.  They come to me looking for someone who will educate them and guide them through the process of buying (or building) a home.  I am their guide, counselor and instructor.  And I am their advocate.

So, going back to my description in the first paragraph, I have a real challenge.  When I get calls and e-mails from people who are hot-to-trot I try to ask a few relevant questions and see if I can guide them back to a starting point, one that they have missed.  The first thing I ask them is if they are pre-approved with a lender.  If they are not, back to square one.  Why would you consider looking at a home if you are not even pre-approved?  No seller would ever see you as a serious buyer.  And frankly, neither would any agent worth their salt.  Regardless if a potential buyer is pre-approved, or not, my first goal is to get them to meet with me so we can go through the process and make sure they are in the best position to buy a home.  And if they say "no" and "well, I really just want to see this home"  that is usually the end of the conversation if I can't get them to come in and meet with me first.  At that point I know, for the most part, that they are not serious buyers.  If they can't spend an hour of their time learning about the most important financial transaction of their life then I really don't have time for them.  And they usually don't seem to mind.  They can always find an agent, one not like me, who will just "show them homes." 

So, if you are considering buying a home get your ducks in a row!  Become an educated and informed buyer first and you will be in the best position to buy the best home for you at the right time.